Sex

• https://www.huffingtonpost.com.au/entry/sex-confessions-women-want-sex-more-than-men_n_3203879
• https://www.imom.com/why-husbands-lose-interest-in-sex/
• https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/married-and-still-doing-it/201403/the-4-hidden-reasons-some-men-dont-want-sex
• https://socialnewsdaily.com/71061/men-go-off-sex-quicker-in-relationships/
• https://babe.net/2017/11/09/my-boyfriend-wont-have-sex-relationship-problems-20606
• https://www.tandfonline.com/doi/abs/10.1080/00224499.2018.1437592?journalCode=hjsr20
• https://www.dailymail.co.uk/femail/article-2303648/Why-men-losing-sex-drive-Men-likely-refuse-sex-women--doctors-blame-recession-toxins.html
• https://www.sciencedaily.com/releases/2016/09/160906084835.htm
• https://www.thedailybeast.com/the-secret-sex-lives-of-nuns
• https://consumer.healthday.com/encyclopedia/sexual-health-and-relationships-35/marriage-health-news-462/the-sex-starved-marriage-647614.html

Port

• https://theconversation.com/porn-use-is-up-thanks-to-the-pandemic-134972

Decling Sex Rates

• http://time.com/5297145/is-sex-dead
• https://areomagazine.com/2019/07/15/the-sex-recession

Men turn down sex as much as women do in long term relationships

https://www.babyboomers.com/article/study-finds-men-turn-down-sex-as-much-as-women-do/5afb2e1ae4b073fac52967b1

This study is arguing men turn down sex with their partner as often as women do. If men are more concerned about the consequences of turning down women in a relationship than the reverse then men probably engage in "service sex" more often than women do.[1] That would imply men's true desire for sex in a long term relationship is actually lower than women's, over the entire population. Women are seen to complain a lot about their male partners wanting sex, whereas women who are sex-starved appear to remain quiet about it. Men of course tend not to talk about sex. Could women who claim about their male partners wanting sex actually be virtue signalling?

[1] I suspect the idea that men are more likely than women to engage in service sex may well be true.

https://www.telegraph.co.uk/news/2018/05/14/men-lose-interest-sex-long-term-relationships-women-study-finds/

https://nypost.com/2018/05/15/myth-busting-study-claims-men-lose-interest-in-sex-first/

https://www.irishexaminer.com/breakingnews/lifestyle/healthandlife/not-tonight-why-men-are-not-always-in-the-mood-for-sex-944384.html

https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/whats-your-sexual-style/200903/is-it-really-men-who-stop-couple-sexuality

https://www.netmums.com/coffeehouse/life-504/sexual-health-contraception-48/939991-partner-says-no-sex-2.html

https://www.netmums.com/coffeehouse/life-504/sexual-health-contraception-48/849814-help-my-partner-has-lower-sex-drive-than-me.html

https://www.netmums.com/coffeehouse/life-504/sexual-health-contraception-48/849707-not-getting-sex-my-husband.html

https://www.netmums.com/coffeehouse/life-504/sexual-health-contraception-48/752183-getting-sex-life-back-normal.html

https://www.netmums.com/coffeehouse/life-504/sexual-health-contraception-48/751574-my-wits-end-trying-impress-my-man.html

https://www.straight.com/article-77625/women-who-want-sex-constantly

https://www.thesun.co.uk/sun-men/9371463/nearly-half-women-want-more-sex-men-survey/

https://www.rd.com/advice/sex/men-women-relationship-sexual-desire-study/

https://www.huffpost.com/entry/its-wives-who-want-more-sex_b_2593751

https://www.familylife.com/articles/topics/marriage/marriage-challenges/understanding-differences/why-sex-is-so-important-to-your-wife/

https://www.theguardian.com/lifeandstyle/2018/oct/13/a-strong-libido-and-bored-by-monogamy-the-truth-about-women-and-sex

https://consumer.healthday.com/encyclopedia/sexual-health-and-relationships-35/marriage-health-news-462/the-sex-starved-marriage-647614.html

https://www.whimn.com.au/love/intimacy/after-6-years-in-a-sexless-marriage-i-finally-left-my-husband/news-story/0d501e008fa5e5020cbe1837f8fcbb2d

https://www.whimn.com.au/love/intimacy/my-husband-didnt-have-sex-with-me-for-6-years/news-story/a32c24a0616733a40903317dc4a238c2

https://intimacyinmarriage.com/2013/07/24/husbands-who-deny-sex-and-the-wives-who-suffer/

https://intimacyinmarriage.com/2013/08/02/are-you-numb-to-your-sexless-marriage

http://thedailybeast.com/can-boys-be-coerced-into-sex

https://www.liveabout.com/consequences-of-male-low-libido-2300706

https://www.liveabout.com/is-your-passive-aggressive-husband-withholding-sex-1102411

https://www.today.com/health/men-sex-relationships-therapist-shares-surprising-truths-about-desire-t149064

https://www.news.com.au/lifestyle/relationships/sex/relationship-rehab-husbands-brutal-response-to-sex-request/news-story/9b88d5c49c4e682ac092db783e5180ac

https://www.familylife.com/articles/topics/marriage/marriage-challenges/understanding-differences/why-sex-is-so-important-to-your-wife/

https://marriagetoday.com/marriagehelp/husband-wont-sex/

Men and Women struggle over sexual urges at similar rates

• https://nationalpost.com/health/women-nearly-as-distressed-as-men-over-compulsive-sexual-urges-and-behaviour-study-finds

Women talk about sex more than men do

• https://www.eurekalert.org/pub_releases/2002-04/ps-wta041202.php

Many women want men to ejaculate during intercourse

• https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pubmed/30274957

Men who prefer masturbation

• https://www.playboy.com/read/prefer-masturbation-to-sex
• https://www.bodyandsoul.com.au/sex-relationships/sex/my-partner-prefers-masturbation/news-story/d3d71cffd983d13a09d5e77764493734
• https://www.psychologytoday.com/au/blog/women-who-stray/201705/masturbation-and-marriage
• https://www.reddit.com/r/DeadBedrooms/comments/5c9tq4/looking_for_advice_from_men_who_prefer/
• https://www.vice.com/en_us/article/wn3j49/the-complicated-relationship-between-sex-and-masturbation
• https://www.webmd.com/men/features/is-solo-sex-hurting-your-relationship
• https://www.quora.com/Why-do-guys-masturbate-instead-of-having-sex-with-their-partner-Should-I-feel-hurt-about-it-when-I-asked-him-if-we-could
• https://www.netmums.com/coffeehouse/life-504/sexual-health-contraception-48/940150-common-men-prefer-quick-m-bation-having-sex.html

Attentiveness

• https://www.psychologytoday.com/au/blog/insight-therapy/201502/why-we-cant-stay-focused-during-sex-and-why-it-matters
• https://www.miamiherald.com/news/nation-world/national/article221432090.html

Islam & Sex

• https://www.al-islam.org/islamic-marriage-handbook-syed-athar-husayn-sh-rizvi/days-and-times-sex
• https://islamqa.info/en/answers/1078/does-shareeah-state-a-specific-number-of-times-that-a-couple-should-have-intercourse
• https://islamqa.info/en/answers/9602/her-husband-has-strong-desire-what-should-she-do