Whataboutery

Whataboutery (or whataboutism) is a term often used by feminists to shutdown arguments made by MRAs. The definition provided in the Cambridge Dictionary uses just such an example.

He's the kind of person who responds to an attempt to protect women from domestic violence with whataboutery: "What about male victims of domestic violence?"

A Wikipedia article on the topic asserts that it is an informal fallacy but shows significant ideological bias and fails to establish the concept as part of modern philosophy.