Sex
- https://www.huffingtonpost.com.au/entry/sex-confessions-women-want-sex-more-than-men_n_3203879
- https://www.imom.com/why-husbands-lose-interest-in-sex/
- https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/married-and-still-doing-it/201403/the-4-hidden-reasons-some-men-dont-want-sex
- https://socialnewsdaily.com/71061/men-go-off-sex-quicker-in-relationships/
- https://babe.net/2017/11/09/my-boyfriend-wont-have-sex-relationship-problems-20606
- https://www.tandfonline.com/doi/abs/10.1080/00224499.2018.1437592?journalCode=hjsr20
- https://www.dailymail.co.uk/femail/article-2303648/Why-men-losing-sex-drive-Men-likely-refuse-sex-women--doctors-blame-recession-toxins.html
Decling Sex Rates
Men turn down sex as much as women do in long term relationships
This study is arguing men turn down sex with their partner as often as women do. If men are more concerned about the consequences of turning down women in a relationship than the reverse then men probably engage in "service sex" more often than women do.[1] That would imply men's true desire for sex in a long term relationship is actually lower than women's, over the entire population.
[1] I suspect the idea that men are more likely than women to engage in service sex may well be true.
https://nypost.com/2018/05/15/myth-busting-study-claims-men-lose-interest-in-sex-first/
https://www.straight.com/article-77625/women-who-want-sex-constantly
https://www.thesun.co.uk/sun-men/9371463/nearly-half-women-want-more-sex-men-survey/
https://www.rd.com/advice/sex/men-women-relationship-sexual-desire-study/
https://www.huffpost.com/entry/its-wives-who-want-more-sex_b_2593751
Men and Women struggle over sexual urges at similar rates
Women talk about sex more than men do
Men who prefer masturbation
- https://www.playboy.com/read/prefer-masturbation-to-sex
- https://www.bodyandsoul.com.au/sex-relationships/sex/my-partner-prefers-masturbation/news-story/d3d71cffd983d13a09d5e77764493734
- https://www.psychologytoday.com/au/blog/women-who-stray/201705/masturbation-and-marriage
- https://www.reddit.com/r/DeadBedrooms/comments/5c9tq4/looking_for_advice_from_men_who_prefer/
- https://www.vice.com/en_us/article/wn3j49/the-complicated-relationship-between-sex-and-masturbation
- https://www.webmd.com/men/features/is-solo-sex-hurting-your-relationship
- https://www.quora.com/Why-do-guys-masturbate-instead-of-having-sex-with-their-partner-Should-I-feel-hurt-about-it-when-I-asked-him-if-we-could
- https://www.netmums.com/coffeehouse/life-504/sexual-health-contraception-48/940150-common-men-prefer-quick-m-bation-having-sex.html
Attentiveness
- https://www.psychologytoday.com/au/blog/insight-therapy/201502/why-we-cant-stay-focused-during-sex-and-why-it-matters
- https://www.miamiherald.com/news/nation-world/national/article221432090.html
Islam & Sex
- https://www.al-islam.org/islamic-marriage-handbook-syed-athar-husayn-sh-rizvi/days-and-times-sex
- https://islamqa.info/en/answers/1078/does-shareeah-state-a-specific-number-of-times-that-a-couple-should-have-intercourse
- https://islamqa.info/en/answers/9602/her-husband-has-strong-desire-what-should-she-do