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| + | We often hear the claim that ''women are the gatekeepers of sex'' and that research supports this. All this really means is men are more likely to say yes if their partner initiates sex. Given that research shows that women are less inclined to initiate sex even when they want it the inclination for men to be more likely to say yes says little about levels of desire. |
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| + | Greater bisexuality in women might be an indicator of women's greater sex drive. |
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| + | If women didn't pursue sex abortions would not be as common as they are. |
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* https://www.huffingtonpost.com.au/entry/sex-confessions-women-want-sex-more-than-men_n_3203879 |
* https://www.huffingtonpost.com.au/entry/sex-confessions-women-want-sex-more-than-men_n_3203879 |
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* https://www.imom.com/why-husbands-lose-interest-in-sex/ |
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* https://www.sciencedaily.com/releases/2016/09/160906084835.htm |
* https://www.sciencedaily.com/releases/2016/09/160906084835.htm |
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* https://www.thedailybeast.com/the-secret-sex-lives-of-nuns |
* https://www.thedailybeast.com/the-secret-sex-lives-of-nuns |
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| + | * https://consumer.healthday.com/encyclopedia/sexual-health-and-relationships-35/marriage-health-news-462/the-sex-starved-marriage-647614.html |
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| + | * https://www.theguardian.com/lifeandstyle/2020/oct/19/what-i-learned-about-male-desire-in-a-sex-doll-factory |
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| + | * https://medium.com/gigi-love-stories/shocking-news-women-can-want-sex-more-than-men-77e3d638cc94 |
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| + | * https://www.bustle.com/articles/109705-women-want-sex-just-as-much-as-men-do-new-survey-shows-and-more-things-to |
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| + | * https://www.thesun.ie/fabulous/8323300/sexpert-huge-sex-myth-women-need-to-know-men-bedroom/ |
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| + | * https://www.idiva.com/relationships-love/love-stories/who-wants-more-sex-men-or-women/6372 |
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| + | * https://www.smh.com.au/lifestyle/life-and-relationships/women-think-about-sex-more-than-men-do-according-to-new-survey-20141119-11pffg.html |
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| + | * https://www.huffpost.com/entry/women-want-sex-more-than-men-partners_n_3179516 |
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| + | * https://www.webmd.com/sex-relationships/news/20111014/older-women-say-they-want-more-sex-not-less |
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| + | * https://leighnoren.com/human-sexuality-blog/who-has-more-sexual-desire-men-or-women-according-to-science/ |
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| + | * https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/the-future-intimacy/202201/how-couples-can-cope-mans-lost-interest-in-sex |
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| + | * https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/the-future-intimacy/202012/what-happens-when-man-loses-interest-in-sex |
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| + | * https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/the-future-intimacy/202003/when-do-you-want-have-sex-fails |
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| + | * https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/married-and-still-doing-it/201210/five-sex-tips-women-about-men |
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| + | * https://www.womenshealthmag.com/sex-and-love/a19894937/male-sex-secrets/ |
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| + | * https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/divorce-busting/200804/sex-starved-wives |
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| + | * https://www.dailymail.co.uk/femail/article-4899670/The-ten-things-women-sex-men-hate.html |
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| + | * https://www.jordangrayconsulting.com/3-damaging-myths-about-sex-lives-of-men/ |
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| + | * https://www.sofeminine.co.uk/sex-sexuality/sex-myths-about-men-s564642.html |
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| + | * https://www.webmd.com/sex/features/sex-drive-how-do-men-women-compare |
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| + | * https://www.skeptic.com/reading_room/from-sex-to-gender-modern-dismissal-of-biology/ |
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| + | ** https://archive.is/jfXz3 |
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| + | * https://buildingboys.net/talking-boys-sexually-aggressive-girls/ |
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| + | * https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/underneath-the-sheets/202303/when-you-want-your-partner-to-want-sex |
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| + | * https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/17610060/ |
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| + | * https://www.psychologytoday.com/au/blog/the-state-of-our-unions/202302/why-are-so-many-young-men-single-and-sexless |
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| + | * https://www.huffpost.com/entry/why-doesnt-he-want-to-have-sex-with-me_b_5072472 |
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| + | * https://www.pewresearch.org/short-reads/2023/02/08/for-valentines-day-5-facts-about-single-americans/ |
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| + | * https://news.iu.edu/live/news/26924-nearly-1-in-3-young-men-in-the-us-report-having-no |
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| + | * https://joe.ie/life-style/amount-men-30-not-sex-nearly-tripled-past-decade-663846 |
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| + | * https://www.foxnews.com/media/more-than-60-percent-young-men-single-study-finds-young-women-dating |
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| + | * https://www.webmd.com/sex/features/sex-drive-how-do-men-women-compare |
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| + | * https://ecoevocommunity.nature.com/posts/42963-female-promiscuity-drives-male-sexual-selection |
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| + | * https://www.telegraph.co.uk/news/2021/03/08/young-men-giving-sex-play-video-games-study-finds/ |
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| + | * https://archive.is/q7xN4 |
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| + | * https://going-medieval.com/2022/03/24/on-women-pleasure-and-semen/ |
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| + | * https://going-medieval.com/2017/05/26/on-women-and-desire/ |
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| + | * https://nypost.com/2021/12/27/women-who-have-more-sex-have-better-developed-brains-study/ |
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| + | * https://insidehook.com/sex-and-dating/sex-good-womens-brains |
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| + | * https://archive.is/wip/PKzZK |
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| + | * https://www.insidehook.com/sex-and-dating/single-men-dont-care-sex-anymore-says-study |
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| + | * https://archive.is/wip/e5bkK |
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| + | * https://www.psychologytoday.com/nz/blog/sexualitytoday/201808/are-women-hungrier-for-sex-than-we-thought |
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| + | * https://amazon.com/Untrue-Everything-Believe-Infidelity-Science/dp/0316463612/ |
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| + | * https://www.webmd.com/sex/features/sex-drive-how-do-men-women-compare |
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| − | == Decling Sex Rates == |
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| − | * http://time.com/5297145/is-sex-dead |
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| − | * https://areomagazine.com/2019/07/15/the-sex-recession |
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| − | == Men turn down sex as much as women do in long term relationships == |
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| − | https://www.babyboomers.com/article/study-finds-men-turn-down-sex-as-much-as-women-do/5afb2e1ae4b073fac52967b1 |
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| − | This study is arguing men turn down sex with their partner as often as women do. If men are more concerned about the consequences of turning down women in a relationship than the reverse then men probably engage in "service sex" more often than women do.[1] That would imply men's true desire for sex in a long term relationship is actually lower than women's, over the entire population. |
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| − | [1] I suspect the idea that men are more likely than women to engage in service sex may well be true. |
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| − | https://www.telegraph.co.uk/news/2018/05/14/men-lose-interest-sex-long-term-relationships-women-study-finds/ |
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| − | https://nypost.com/2018/05/15/myth-busting-study-claims-men-lose-interest-in-sex-first/ |
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| − | https://www.irishexaminer.com/breakingnews/lifestyle/healthandlife/not-tonight-why-men-are-not-always-in-the-mood-for-sex-944384.html |
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| − | https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/whats-your-sexual-style/200903/is-it-really-men-who-stop-couple-sexuality |
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| − | https://www.netmums.com/coffeehouse/life-504/sexual-health-contraception-48/939991-partner-says-no-sex-2.html |
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| − | https://www.netmums.com/coffeehouse/life-504/sexual-health-contraception-48/849814-help-my-partner-has-lower-sex-drive-than-me.html |
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| − | https://www.netmums.com/coffeehouse/life-504/sexual-health-contraception-48/849707-not-getting-sex-my-husband.html |
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| − | https://www.netmums.com/coffeehouse/life-504/sexual-health-contraception-48/752183-getting-sex-life-back-normal.html |
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| − | https://www.netmums.com/coffeehouse/life-504/sexual-health-contraception-48/751574-my-wits-end-trying-impress-my-man.html |
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| − | https://www.straight.com/article-77625/women-who-want-sex-constantly |
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| − | https://www.thesun.co.uk/sun-men/9371463/nearly-half-women-want-more-sex-men-survey/ |
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| − | https://www.rd.com/advice/sex/men-women-relationship-sexual-desire-study/ |
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| − | https://www.huffpost.com/entry/its-wives-who-want-more-sex_b_2593751 |
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| − | https://www.familylife.com/articles/topics/marriage/marriage-challenges/understanding-differences/why-sex-is-so-important-to-your-wife/ |
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| − | https://www.theguardian.com/lifeandstyle/2018/oct/13/a-strong-libido-and-bored-by-monogamy-the-truth-about-women-and-sex |
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| − | https://consumer.healthday.com/encyclopedia/sexual-health-and-relationships-35/marriage-health-news-462/the-sex-starved-marriage-647614.html |
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| − | https://www.whimn.com.au/love/intimacy/after-6-years-in-a-sexless-marriage-i-finally-left-my-husband/news-story/0d501e008fa5e5020cbe1837f8fcbb2d |
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| − | == Men and Women struggle over sexual urges at similar rates == |
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| − | * https://nationalpost.com/health/women-nearly-as-distressed-as-men-over-compulsive-sexual-urges-and-behaviour-study-finds |
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| − | == Women talk about sex more than men do == |
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| − | * https://www.eurekalert.org/pub_releases/2002-04/ps-wta041202.php |
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| − | == Many women want men to ejaculate during intercourse == |
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| − | * https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pubmed/30274957 |
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| − | == Men who prefer masturbation == |
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| − | * https://www.playboy.com/read/prefer-masturbation-to-sex |
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| − | * https://www.bodyandsoul.com.au/sex-relationships/sex/my-partner-prefers-masturbation/news-story/d3d71cffd983d13a09d5e77764493734 |
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| − | * https://www.psychologytoday.com/au/blog/women-who-stray/201705/masturbation-and-marriage |
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| − | * https://www.reddit.com/r/DeadBedrooms/comments/5c9tq4/looking_for_advice_from_men_who_prefer/ |
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| − | * https://www.vice.com/en_us/article/wn3j49/the-complicated-relationship-between-sex-and-masturbation |
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| − | * https://www.webmd.com/men/features/is-solo-sex-hurting-your-relationship |
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| − | * https://www.quora.com/Why-do-guys-masturbate-instead-of-having-sex-with-their-partner-Should-I-feel-hurt-about-it-when-I-asked-him-if-we-could |
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| − | * https://www.netmums.com/coffeehouse/life-504/sexual-health-contraception-48/940150-common-men-prefer-quick-m-bation-having-sex.html |
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| − | == Attentiveness == |
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| − | * https://www.psychologytoday.com/au/blog/insight-therapy/201502/why-we-cant-stay-focused-during-sex-and-why-it-matters |
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| − | * https://www.miamiherald.com/news/nation-world/national/article221432090.html |
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| − | == Islam & Sex == |
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| − | * https://www.al-islam.org/islamic-marriage-handbook-syed-athar-husayn-sh-rizvi/days-and-times-sex |
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| − | * https://islamqa.info/en/answers/1078/does-shareeah-state-a-specific-number-of-times-that-a-couple-should-have-intercourse |
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| − | * https://islamqa.info/en/answers/9602/her-husband-has-strong-desire-what-should-she-do |
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Latest revision as of 06:49, 3 November 2024
We often hear the claim that women are the gatekeepers of sex and that research supports this. All this really means is men are more likely to say yes if their partner initiates sex. Given that research shows that women are less inclined to initiate sex even when they want it the inclination for men to be more likely to say yes says little about levels of desire.
Greater bisexuality in women might be an indicator of women's greater sex drive.
If women didn't pursue sex abortions would not be as common as they are.
- https://www.huffingtonpost.com.au/entry/sex-confessions-women-want-sex-more-than-men_n_3203879
- https://www.imom.com/why-husbands-lose-interest-in-sex/
- https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/married-and-still-doing-it/201403/the-4-hidden-reasons-some-men-dont-want-sex
- https://socialnewsdaily.com/71061/men-go-off-sex-quicker-in-relationships/
- https://babe.net/2017/11/09/my-boyfriend-wont-have-sex-relationship-problems-20606
- https://www.tandfonline.com/doi/abs/10.1080/00224499.2018.1437592?journalCode=hjsr20
- https://www.dailymail.co.uk/femail/article-2303648/Why-men-losing-sex-drive-Men-likely-refuse-sex-women--doctors-blame-recession-toxins.html
- https://www.sciencedaily.com/releases/2016/09/160906084835.htm
- https://www.thedailybeast.com/the-secret-sex-lives-of-nuns
- https://consumer.healthday.com/encyclopedia/sexual-health-and-relationships-35/marriage-health-news-462/the-sex-starved-marriage-647614.html
- https://www.theguardian.com/lifeandstyle/2020/oct/19/what-i-learned-about-male-desire-in-a-sex-doll-factory
- https://medium.com/gigi-love-stories/shocking-news-women-can-want-sex-more-than-men-77e3d638cc94
- https://www.bustle.com/articles/109705-women-want-sex-just-as-much-as-men-do-new-survey-shows-and-more-things-to
- https://www.thesun.ie/fabulous/8323300/sexpert-huge-sex-myth-women-need-to-know-men-bedroom/
- https://www.idiva.com/relationships-love/love-stories/who-wants-more-sex-men-or-women/6372
- https://www.smh.com.au/lifestyle/life-and-relationships/women-think-about-sex-more-than-men-do-according-to-new-survey-20141119-11pffg.html
- https://www.huffpost.com/entry/women-want-sex-more-than-men-partners_n_3179516
- https://www.webmd.com/sex-relationships/news/20111014/older-women-say-they-want-more-sex-not-less
- https://leighnoren.com/human-sexuality-blog/who-has-more-sexual-desire-men-or-women-according-to-science/
- https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/the-future-intimacy/202201/how-couples-can-cope-mans-lost-interest-in-sex
- https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/the-future-intimacy/202012/what-happens-when-man-loses-interest-in-sex
- https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/the-future-intimacy/202003/when-do-you-want-have-sex-fails
- https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/married-and-still-doing-it/201210/five-sex-tips-women-about-men
- https://www.womenshealthmag.com/sex-and-love/a19894937/male-sex-secrets/
- https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/divorce-busting/200804/sex-starved-wives
- https://www.dailymail.co.uk/femail/article-4899670/The-ten-things-women-sex-men-hate.html
- https://www.jordangrayconsulting.com/3-damaging-myths-about-sex-lives-of-men/
- https://www.sofeminine.co.uk/sex-sexuality/sex-myths-about-men-s564642.html
- https://www.webmd.com/sex/features/sex-drive-how-do-men-women-compare
- https://www.skeptic.com/reading_room/from-sex-to-gender-modern-dismissal-of-biology/
- https://buildingboys.net/talking-boys-sexually-aggressive-girls/
- https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/underneath-the-sheets/202303/when-you-want-your-partner-to-want-sex
- https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/17610060/
- https://www.psychologytoday.com/au/blog/the-state-of-our-unions/202302/why-are-so-many-young-men-single-and-sexless
- https://www.huffpost.com/entry/why-doesnt-he-want-to-have-sex-with-me_b_5072472
- https://www.pewresearch.org/short-reads/2023/02/08/for-valentines-day-5-facts-about-single-americans/
- https://news.iu.edu/live/news/26924-nearly-1-in-3-young-men-in-the-us-report-having-no
- https://joe.ie/life-style/amount-men-30-not-sex-nearly-tripled-past-decade-663846
- https://www.foxnews.com/media/more-than-60-percent-young-men-single-study-finds-young-women-dating
- https://www.webmd.com/sex/features/sex-drive-how-do-men-women-compare
- https://ecoevocommunity.nature.com/posts/42963-female-promiscuity-drives-male-sexual-selection
- https://www.telegraph.co.uk/news/2021/03/08/young-men-giving-sex-play-video-games-study-finds/
- https://archive.is/q7xN4
- https://going-medieval.com/2022/03/24/on-women-pleasure-and-semen/
- https://going-medieval.com/2017/05/26/on-women-and-desire/
- https://nypost.com/2021/12/27/women-who-have-more-sex-have-better-developed-brains-study/
- https://insidehook.com/sex-and-dating/sex-good-womens-brains
- https://archive.is/wip/PKzZK
- https://www.insidehook.com/sex-and-dating/single-men-dont-care-sex-anymore-says-study
- https://archive.is/wip/e5bkK
- https://www.psychologytoday.com/nz/blog/sexualitytoday/201808/are-women-hungrier-for-sex-than-we-thought
- https://amazon.com/Untrue-Everything-Believe-Infidelity-Science/dp/0316463612/
- https://www.webmd.com/sex/features/sex-drive-how-do-men-women-compare
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Many feminists assert that women were only allowed to enjoy sex relatively recently. A review of history around the world demonstrates that this is false.
Cultures around the world and at different times have varied widely in their approach to female sexuality. Many historical societies, including Western Europe during the Middle Ages, argued that women have higher libidos than men. Some also believed that women experience more pleasure from sex as the ancient Greek story of Tiresias demonstrates.