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[[Domestic violence]] (DV) is a term used to describe a variety of behaviours exhibited between people who are related to one another or who live in the same home. The definition of DV has steadily broadened since the 1960s. Whereas DV was originally seen as physical violence it now encompasses many behaviours including, most recently in many countries, [[coercive control]]. The term is often erroneously used to mean [[intimate partner violence]]. Western governments, the [[mainstream media]], [[feminists]] and other interest groups perpetrate the erroneous belief that DV is largely something men do to women.
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The common perception of domestic violence (also known as intimate partner violence) is as something men perpetrate against women. Data suggests this is an inaccurate picture.
  
   
 
Teaching that men should not hit women but that no such prohibition exists for women hitting men violates the social principal of reciprocity and threatens the social fabric. The solution to this is to teach that all violence is unacceptable.
  
Teaching that men should not hit women but that no such prohibition exists for women hitting men violates the social principal of reciprocity and threatens the social fabric. The solution to this is to teach that all violence is unacceptable.
   
 
One in five intimate partner homicides in Australia is a woman murdering her male partner.<ref>http://www.aic.gov.au/media_library/publications/tandi_pdf/tandi090.pdf</ref>
  
One in five intimate partner homicides in Australia is a woman murdering her male partner.<ref>http://www.aic.gov.au/media_library/publications/tandi_pdf/tandi090.pdf</ref>
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== Reciprocal Violence ==
  
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One of the key indicators of whether a woman will be a victim of IPV is whether she is a perpetrator of DV/IPV. "Reciprocity was associated with more frequent violence among women"<ref>https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC1854883/</ref>. Women are more likely to be injured as a result of IPV so it follows one key way that women could avoid being a victim of IPV is to not be a perpetrator. To be clear this is not about provocation in the moment. Rather this a long term trend in which a man and a woman initiate IPV against each other. If the woman initiates IPV research clearly shows she's more likely to be a victim of IPV as well.
  
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* https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC1854883/
  
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* http://www.aph.gov.au/DocumentStore.ashx?id=8145801d-8fc5-4d3e-931d-f0ffcf3bffbc&subId=298676
  
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* https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC3384540/
  
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* https://www.hindawi.com/archive/2015/502703/
  
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* https://ajph.aphapublications.org/doi/abs/10.2105/AJPH.2005.079020
  
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* http://www.forensicare.vic.gov.au/researcheducation-2/research-projects/complex-criminal-behaviour/youth-intimate-partner-violence-australian-sample/
  
   
 
== Women Initiate More IPV ==
  
== Women Initiate More IPV ==
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* https://quadrant.org.au/magazine/2018/09/women-can-violent-men/
  
* https://quadrant.org.au/magazine/2018/09/women-can-violent-men/
 
* https://www.health.harvard.edu/newsletter_article/In_Brief_Domestic_violence_Not_always_one_sided
  
* https://www.health.harvard.edu/newsletter_article/In_Brief_Domestic_violence_Not_always_one_sided
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* https://vancouversun.com/opinion/columnists/douglas-todd-why-no-shelters-for-male-victims-of-partner-violence
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* http://endtodv.org/pr/recent-incidents-reveal-need-to-address-long-neglected-problem-of-violent-and-abusive-women/
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* https://www.independent.co.uk/news/uk/crime/domestic-violence-women-statistics-number-trebles-female-violence-against-partners-a7316481.html
   
 
== Women's violence against children ==
  
== Women's violence against children ==
   
 
* https://www.odt.co.nz/news/national/children-most-often-killed-mothers
  
* https://www.odt.co.nz/news/national/children-most-often-killed-mothers
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== IPV Decreased Over time ==
  
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"In the area of demographic risk factors, older age is associated with decreased risk for IPV, with the peak seeming to occur quite early – in late adolescence and young adulthood. This is contrary to earlier views that IPV was related to entrapment in marriage (Stets & Straus, 1989) and inevitably got worse over time (Walker, 1989)."
  
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* https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC3384540/
  
   
 
== External Links ==
  
== External Links ==
   
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* https://bylinetimes.com/2022/12/13/more-men-are-killed-in-households-each-year-than-women/
 
* [http://www.reddit.com/r/science/comments/9bg654/teen_dating_violence_is_down_but_boys_still/ Good discussion on /r/science]
  
* [http://www.reddit.com/r/science/comments/9bg654/teen_dating_violence_is_down_but_boys_still/ Good discussion on /r/science]
 
* http://www.mediaradar.org/
  
* http://www.mediaradar.org/
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* https://recalculatingthegenderwar.tumblr.com/post/162336650896/new-cdc-data-again-finds-as-many-if-not-more
  
* https://recalculatingthegenderwar.tumblr.com/post/162336650896/new-cdc-data-again-finds-as-many-if-not-more
 
* https://journals.plos.org/plosone/article?id=10.1371%2Fjournal.pone.0206101
  
* https://journals.plos.org/plosone/article?id=10.1371%2Fjournal.pone.0206101
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* https://www.expressandstar.com/news/voices/opinions/talking-point/2020/07/25/men-can-be-victims-the-same-as-women-can-be-perpetrators-writes-sam-billingham/
   
 
== From Duane ==
  
== From Duane ==
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* http://www.northwestern.edu/newscenter/stories/2014/09/domestic-violence-likely-more-frequent-for-same-sex-couples.html
  
* http://www.northwestern.edu/newscenter/stories/2014/09/domestic-violence-likely-more-frequent-for-same-sex-couples.html
 
* http://www.cdc.gov/media/releases/2013/p0125_NISVS.html
  
* http://www.cdc.gov/media/releases/2013/p0125_NISVS.html
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* http://www.mmgconnect.com/projects/userfiles/file/dce-stop_now/ncadv_lgbt_fact_sheet.pdf
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== Denying sex is IPV when men do it ==
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* [https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/identifying-abuse/withholding-intimacy-can-be-abusive-too When men do it, it's IPV]
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* [https://nypost.com/2017/07/27/lawyer-argues-women-who-deny-husbands-sex-are-guilty-of-abuse/ When someone suggests the same for women, all hell breaks lose]
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* [https://www.thecut.com/2013/04/report-denying-men-sex-is-like-child-neglect.html The Cut mocks a man denied sex]
   
 
== Introductory Articles ==
  
== Introductory Articles ==
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*[https://open.abc.net.au/explore/93ob0zq?WT.mc_id=Innovation_ABCOpen|DomesticViolenceAgainstMen_FBP Domestic Violence against men]
  
*[https://open.abc.net.au/explore/93ob0zq?WT.mc_id=Innovation_ABCOpen|DomesticViolenceAgainstMen_FBP Domestic Violence against men]
 
*[http://www.inside-man.co.uk/2015/09/30/male-domestic-violence-victims-often-arrested-due-to-false-accusations-by-their-abusers-study-finds/ male domestic violence victims often arrested due to false accusations by their abusers study finds]
  
*[http://www.inside-man.co.uk/2015/09/30/male-domestic-violence-victims-often-arrested-due-to-false-accusations-by-their-abusers-study-finds/ male domestic violence victims often arrested due to false accusations by their abusers study finds]
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*[phenomenalact.com/single-post/hate-movement Hate Movement]
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*[https://phenomenalact.com/single-post/hate-movement Hate Movement]
   
 
== Sources used to claim that M->F is the majority of DV/IPV ==
  
== Sources used to claim that M->F is the majority of DV/IPV ==
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* [http://www.aic.gov.au/media_library/publications/tandi_pdf/tandi090.pdf No.90 Homicide between Intimate Partners in Australia]
  
* [http://www.aic.gov.au/media_library/publications/tandi_pdf/tandi090.pdf No.90 Homicide between Intimate Partners in Australia]
   
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=== Custom AIC Report ===
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== External Links ==
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* [https://youtu.be/wzs-lFuNluw?t=566 Ex police officer says that domestic violence is not a gendered issue.] At 11:41 she says that "the statistics are basically a fraud."
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[http://tinyurl.com/psjqfny Custom Report]
  
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Short url: http://tinyurl.com/psjqfny
  
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Table 9 tell us that during the reporting period:
  
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* Woman unlawfully killed her husband: 8
  
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* Woman unlawfully killed her male defacto: 13
  
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* Woman unlawfully killed her boyfriend: 3
  
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* Woman unlawfully killed her male extramarital lover: 1
  
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* Woman unlawfully killed her ex-boyfriend: 1
  
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* Man unlawfully killed his boyfriend/male spouse: 1
  
   
 
== References ==
  
== References ==
   
 
[[Category:Domestic Violence]]
  
[[Category:Domestic Violence]]
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[[Category:Featured Articles]]

Latest revision as of 14:44, 30 January 2024

Domestic violence (DV) is a term used to describe a variety of behaviours exhibited between people who are related to one another or who live in the same home. The definition of DV has steadily broadened since the 1960s. Whereas DV was originally seen as physical violence it now encompasses many behaviours including, most recently in many countries, coercive control. The term is often erroneously used to mean intimate partner violence. Western governments, the mainstream media, feminists and other interest groups perpetrate the erroneous belief that DV is largely something men do to women.

Teaching that men should not hit women but that no such prohibition exists for women hitting men violates the social principal of reciprocity and threatens the social fabric. The solution to this is to teach that all violence is unacceptable.

One in five intimate partner homicides in Australia is a woman murdering her male partner.[1]

Women Initiate More IPV

Women's violence against children

External Links

From Duane

Over 200 studies from universities and organizations like the following have PROVEN Domestic Violence is gender equal and NOT gender specific.

HARVARD UNIVERSITY - The Harvard Health study found that when violence was one-sided, meaning unprovoked, both men and the women themselves who took the study said 70% OF THE TIME IT WAS THE WOMEN WHO COMMITTED VIOLENCE AGAINST THE MEN.

Duluth Model

http://www.batteredmen.com/batdulut.htm

DV in Lesbian Relationships

Denying sex is IPV when men do it

Introductory Articles

Sources used to claim that M->F is the majority of DV/IPV

This report from the AIHW is used to claim that women are the majority of victims. In reality all it says is that women are over-represented among those more seriously injured, which is widely recognised in the literature. This report entirely fails to mention reciprocal IPV.

Australia

External Links

References

  1. ↑ http://www.aic.gov.au/media_library/publications/tandi_pdf/tandi090.pdf
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